SINGLE AND HAPPY 😃

 

Today, I am 26 years old. I am single and happy 😃 My friends are mostly had been getting married. Sometimes I feel sad why I do not yet find my life partner. But if I look deeper, I have many advantages to upgrade my self. I still can join an organization without any distractions. I can focus on my life. 

Now, I join in Forum Indonesia Muda Cirebon, Muda Environment Care, and Ibu Profesional. I want to contribute maximally to my environment. Although I still confuse about what I want to do in my life, I will always confident and believe in God. Whatever my God choose for me is the best for me. Need to struggle to can accept whatever happened to my life.

In this year, I have several goals in between I want to consistently write in a blog for 30 days. After that, I will join a writing class, so I can publish a book. Other than that, I want to improve my design skill with join in Ibu Profesional team design and follow the design contest. One again, I will be a focus for improve my English skill. My target for my score TOEFL in December is 550. I wish I can achieve that.

Maybe this year will become history for me to always struggle, struggle, and struggle. Keep my spirit

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 MY PARENTS

Photo that taken when I was graduated

Hi, today, I will tell you about my parents. Alhamdulillah, my parents are still alive today. It makes me happy. My family consists of 4 people, my father, my mother, my older sister, and I 😊. We've lived together since I was little. I live in Bandung.

My father is a street vendor, his name is Cilok. Do you like cilok? He started selling cilok since 2017. His background is English. He studied at the ABA (Foreign Language Academy) majoring in English. He only worked in an English course as an English teacher for 1-2 years when I was a kid. Then he moved to Panyileukan and tried whatever work he could, such as being a salesperson, teacher, etc. Since I was in elementary school, he has been selling water on a cart that is delivered to houses.

I feel he is always in charge of my family income, he is always there whenever I need him. He always takes care of her child. He has a good memory of history, especially Wayang. He likes watching Wayang and Colossal Dramas, such as Kian Santang and Angling Darma. He likes trains. My dad is always waiting for train news. Oh yes, one fact about my family, we almost always took the train since I was in elementary school and my house is near the station (cimekar station), so we have a love and hate relationship with trains. Hahaha.

My mother is a housewife who has extraordinary intelligence. She always takes care of her child. Perfectionist and love gardening. She always accompanies me in every situation. She is very emotional. Haha. She likes meeting other people and being organized. But she always complained about everything. Haha, I often get tired when she complains, especially when he complains about evil beings or supernatural beings. She is 2 years younger than my father.

I hope my parents are always physically and mentally healthy. They can achieve whatever they want, such as owning a house, going to Mecca for Hajj, owning a shop, and being able to marry their daughter. Being in harmony with each other. I don't expect them to give me a lot of money or give me wealth, I just hope they can go to heaven and can understand each other so that they don't fight with each other.

With prayers for my parents

Allahummaghfirli waliwaalidaya war hamhumma, kamaa rabbayani shagiiiro

Ya Allah, berikanlah ampunan kepadaku atas seluruh dosa – dosa ku dan seluruh dosa kedua orang tuaku dan kasihanilah keduanya itu sebagaimana beliau berdua mengasihiku ketika aku masih kecil.

AAMMIN

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PLACES YOU WANT TO VISIT 

Hi, in the 4th day 30-day writing challenge, I will write about places I want to visit. Places that I really want to visit are Netherland, yaaaa I want to go to Wageningen University because the Wageningen University has the major that I want to signed up. I wanto to join in Water Quality Management. Maybe it will be take long ago because now I must be prepare from my English skill. Also, Netherland is the best in Water Management. Netherland mostly consists of water, but it can make a land without flood.

The next place I want to visit is Malang, Dieng, Lombok, Raja Ampat, Lembang. I want to visit Lembang because I really want to ride a ziplining bike or flying fox. I hope one day I can go to that place. Actually, Lembang is near my home. But I am not yet to go to that because, in the past, I have not had a motorcycle. I hope I can go ride alone to Lembang and being happy.

In Dieng, there is Dieng Festival in August, so I want to go to Dieng. A romantic place that I want to see. Much beautiful scenery there. In Malang, there are many beaches there. There is Jatim Park, which I want to go to there. In Lombok and Raja Ampat, has many beach and beautiful scenery also. I really like traveling to a natural place.

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 A MEMORY

What do you think about memory?

Memory is what you can remember, and save in your mind. Memory can bring you to your emotion. When you remember a sad event, you will feel sad. When you remember a happy event, you will feel happy. How important your memory! So, you must choose the memory you will save in your mind. 

A few days ago I registered with an organization called the Young Indonesian Forum called FIM. I signed up for FIM 22. And 2 days ago, they announced who passed. Alhamdulillah, I passed stage 1. This incident reminded me that I had enrolled in the organization when I was still in college. I don't remember exactly what year I had enrolled in the organization, but it's been a long time, maybe 2015 or 2016. At the time I hadn't passed recruitment, So I tried again in 2018 when I was in Cirebon, at that time I was working and I wanted to contribute something where I lived. Alhamdulillah, I can pass.

In 2018, the training held by FIM was regional training. After training, I became the core board of FIM Cirebon. Many things I can say from this organization, met many people who have real work. For various reasons, I have to move to Bandung, and my contribution is only online. A year later, FIM opened FIM 21 which held a national training team. If you want to become the core committee at the national level, you must attend the national education and training. So, I signed up for FIM 21. But, I can not pass after interview test.

This year, FIM opens again for FIM 22 and I register for that. Alhamdulillah, I passed the stage 1. Ready for interview test. YUHUUU

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THINGS THAT MAKE ME HAPPY

Videos that took at Karimunjawa Island

Today, on the second day of writing the challenge, I will write about the things that make me happy. I am happy when I am accepted by my environment and if I am treated well. But it takes someone else to make me happy. Actually what makes me most happy is MONEY. HAHAHHAHAA. Yes, I can buy everything with money, and my worries will be less. If I want to go abroad, I don't have to think about the money I can save, I will enjoy my fun. If I had no money, I would have struggled to earn a lot of money beforehand and would worry about running out of money quickly.

Actually the reality is not like that. Again, money is an external factor, so I can't be sad just because I don't have money. I have to be happy with everything I have. If I didn't have to worry about money, I would choose activities that make me happy, like cooking. Well, I really like cooking. I always watch Youtube, then I will develop a recipe that I find according to taste and TADAAAAA. I enjoy serving my food. I have a dream to make a big kitchen at my house. The kitchen will be my room. And I'm going to do some experiments. WOAAAAA. I can't imagine how happy I will be when it is accomplished

I like it when I'm in charge of something, like "You're assigned to be a secretary." I will keep my trust as best I can. I like things that are certain. If I join an organization, and I am not given any responsibility, I will be lazy to come or contribute to that organization. I have always believed that my time is so precious that I cannot set aside time for wasted things. I am a very awkward person, but now I try to change little by little.

Another thing I really like is traveling. I like to observe my environment and take experiences. I believe experience is the best teacher. I think that if I travel to a new place, I can absorb the knowledge that I can't find anywhere else if I only live in my place. There are many different cultures in the world, and it would be great if I could understand their differences.

The last thing that makes me happy is reading. Yes, ever since I was little, I liked to read. I feel like I have a new world that can make my imagination wider when I read. So I like fantasy genre books. If I go through the day without reading, I will feel empty. This hobby gets less and less with age because my need is to read books on topics so heavy that I find it difficult. So I am not interested anymore, except for fantasy genre books. In order to develop myself more than before and keep reading, I finally chose the self-improvement genre. By reading books, I can get new insights, so that I still like reading.

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 DESCRIBE MY PERSONALITY

Hello, my name is Aisyah Dwi Nurhidayah Ramadhan, you can call me Aisyah, Ais, Dwi :) I like cooking and reading. If I want to cook, as usual, I watch Youtube for the recipe and procedure, and I always improve from there. I really like to cook. 

I like learning everything, such as design, python, a digital marketing that I interesting to learn their subjects. Right now, I learning design with Canva and Adobe Photoshop. Design is a skill that I think I can not achieve, but finally, I can basically design. That skill can make me help my organization to make publication content when we only consist of 2 people. And to improve my skill, I join to design team for Ibu Profesional. I think it is suitable for me.

Other than that, I am also learning Python and Digital Marketing but I feel I can not improve that skill because I think so difficult, maybe now I will try again to learn those subjects. I must be a growth mindset.

I am good in time management, I always list what I want to do and if not reach, I will evaluate that. I also like to organize. When I was in college, I contribute to the Aquaculture Community in UNPAD and Mosque Youth Families in Salman ITB. When I was a graduate, I contribute to Forum Indonesia Muda, Muda Environment Care, and Ibu Profesional. I'm happy to be able to contribute to a part of the organization. 

I often get angry when someone is late, unprofessional at work. I judging and underestimate them, but right now I think it is not good, I must be changed. I don't need to think about them. I must be focus on myself. I am a stubborn person, I often difficult to receive input from others. I easily to emotional. Right now, I aware if I must develop myself. I always pray "Ya Allah, tunjukkanlah akhlak yang baik". I feel I underestimate my self over, so I must be self-confident.

THIS IS MY SELF ! WELCOME TO MY WORLD !!! 😊

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 30 DAYS WRITING CHALLENGE

Today, I decided to make a self-challenge. The challenge is to write every day for 30 days in English. Whatever about the story, but I want to take action before. And I will check my grammar in a free grammar checker.

The list of 30 days writing challenge can be read below :

DAY 1 - Describe your personality 

DAY 2 - Things that make you happy

DAY 3 - A memory

DAY 4 - Places you want to visit

DAY 5 - Your parents

DAY 6 - Single and Happy

DAY 7 - Favorite movie

DAY 8 - The power of music

DAY 9 - Write about happiness

DAY 10 - Your best friend

DAY 11 - Talk about your siblings

DAY 12 - Favourite TV Series

DAY 13 - Favourite book

DAY 14 - Describe your style

DAY 15 - If you could run away, where would you go?

DAY 16 - Someone I miss

DAY 17 - Ways to win my heart

DAY 18 - Thirty facts about myself

DAY 19 - My first love

DAY 20 - Your celebrity crush

DAY 21 - Write about LOVE

DAY 22 - Write about TODAY

DAY 23 - A letter to someone, anyone

DAY 24 - Write about a lesson you've learned

DAY 25 - Something inspired of te 11th image on your phone 

DAY 26 - Your school

DAY 27 - Someone who inspires me

DAY 28 - Write about loving someone

DAY 29 - My goals for the future

DAY 30 - Write about what do you feel when you write

BISMILLAH, WE CAN START, I CAN DO IT !!!!

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